Non-Consensual Kink

It seems that I’ve hit an unlucky streak lately when it comes to other people’s public displays of kink. First there was the fiasco at Club Sin, and now this: A couple of weeks ago, right before that blistering heat wave settled over city, I was flashed on my way to the metro.

Here’s what happened: It was close to midday. I had just walked passed a grade school and a construction site in a quiet (i.e., deserted) residential neighborhood when I noticed a thin guy of average height up ahead of me. In another part of the city his worn-in sweats, dark checkered shirt concealing a faded hoodie, and mesh-back baseball cap would hardly merit mention.

Necessary Drama

“Suffering by nature or by chance never seems so painful as the suffering inflicted on us by the arbitrary will of another.”
 - Schopenhauer


Kinksters abhor “drama.” But how far does the scene’s “safe, sane, and consensual” mantra protect players from abuse?

Taking the lead from the etymology of the word “drama” – δράω (drao) “to act, to take action, to achieve” – I’m going to take action and cause some drama of my own by giving you the heads up on why you should avoid Montreal’s Club Sin.

Desperately Seeking: My Dream Dom

Are you a submissive seeking a Dominant? Are you curious to learn more about the personality profile of a good Dom? If your answer is “yes” to either of these questions, then this post is for you.

Credits: I’d like to thank SapioSlut for sending me the FetLife link to this post, written by TheSensualDom2008. Note that at over 3000 words the original version of this essay is friggin’ long, so I’ve taken the liberty to edit the text for clarity and added section headers to facilitate reading.

BDSM for Beginners

Are you curious about BDSM, but scared to jump right in and meet people in the scene? In this post I’ll give you some pointers on how to get started and how to stay safe.